little girl lost
In my younger days I used to be a bit of a rake.
I would juggle girls all the time, being faithful to none, as I enjoyed each of their charms.
So when the opportunity came to have a clandestine relationship with one of my wife’s friends I barely hesitated.
I could handle it.
I was experienced.
Needless to say, it ended badly and hurt a lot of people, me most of all.
But that’s what experience does to people.
It gets them lost.
The same thing happens to companies.
They feel they’ve “been there, done that” and assume they got it all under control.
The print media thought that when they got on the internet.
Friendster thought that as new competitors came around.
So did Microsoft and Yahoo.
One of the big lies is that history repeats itself.
The Zen masters have it right.
You never step in the same river twice.
The river, just like a new situation, isn’t the same.
Research has shown that the best survivors of intense situations (like being lost in the woods) are children 6 and under.
The worse, children 7-12.
The reasons are obvious.
The younger children follow there instincts. If they are tired, they rest. If they are cold, they find shelter. They are in the moment.
Children between 7-12 are different.
They have some adult characteristics but don’t have adult judgement. They panic and run. They look for shortcuts. They can’t control their emotions.
So they die, just like some companies.
Just like the best way to win a game a chicken is to throw away your steering wheel, the best way to handle new situation is to let go of your experience.
Be in the moment.
Accept things as they are.
And stop cheating on your wives.Explore posts in the same categories: information